The uncomfortable reality of leadership no one talks about… high performers often become the biggest bottleneck in their own success. In this raw and unfiltered conversation, Belen Tokarski , President and COO of Mylo, dismantles the outdated leadership myth that being decisive and driven automatically makes you a great leader. From toxic high performance habits to broken team dynamics, this episode exposes the hidden truth behind scaling teams, emotional intelligence, and why most leaders unknowingly kill innovation inside their own organizations.

With over 25 years in insurance and insurtech leadership, Belen Tokarskibrings hard earned insights on leadership development, company culture, and building high performance teams that actually work in today’s business environment.
If you care about business growth, leadership mindset, team performance, or scaling a company in today’s competitive landscape, this conversation delivers practical, real world insights you can apply immediately.
What you’ll learn

◼️ 00:00 The broken system behind high performance leadership
◼️ 03:10 Why most leaders fail at driving change in teams
◼️ 07:25 Culture vs strategy and the hidden growth killer
◼️ 12:40 The uncomfortable truth about bad leadership habits
◼️ 18:05 Emotional intelligence and self awareness in leadership
◼️ 24:30 How leaders bring negative energy into teams without realizing
◼️ 29:15 Practical ways to build trust and accountability in teams
◼️ 35:20 Why leaders must stop controlling and start coaching
◼️ 41:10 Creating high performance teams with high support
◼️ 47:00 Career growth, risk taking, and leadership mindset shifts
We hope you enjoy this episode with Belen Tokarski.

Connect with Belen Tokarski on LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/belen-tokarski-937308/

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— Meg

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It’s Not You (But Sometimes It Is!), hosted by Meg Poag, is the go-to podcast for managers, team leads, and emerging leaders navigating real-world workplace dynamics. Each episode features honest conversations with experienced professionals on leadership challenges—from building resilient teams and fostering authentic connections to managing change, enhancing communication, and balancing ambition with well-being. Whether you’re steering through conflict, scaling a team, or seeking clarity in your leadership style, Meg brings actionable strategies, personal stories, and expert advice to help you lead with confidence and compassion.