ADHD Eavesdrop
ADHD Eavesdrop
Podcast Description
Welcome to ADHD Eavesdrop, where casual, unscripted dialogue meets the world of ADHD. Born from enriching conversations, this podcast shares the spontaneous exchanges you might overhear in a coffee shop.We offer two types of episodes:Friends, Family and ADHDers: Heartfelt talks with friends, family and other ADHDers about ADHD.Experts and Coaches: Insights from ADHD coaches and experts on strategies and challenges of ADHD.Whether you want to understand ADHD better or enjoy genuine connection, there’s something here for everyone. Grab your favorite drink and enjoy the conversation!
Podcast Insights
Content Themes
The podcast focuses on various themes, including strategies for managing ADHD, the intersection of mental health and creativity, and personal insights into living with ADHD, with specific episodes like Navigating Personal Values and Neurodiversity and Understanding Comorbidities highlighting practical approaches to support neurodivergent individuals.

🎧 ADHD Eavesdrop is the podcast where you can be a butterfly on the wall, listening in on real, unscripted conversations about life with ADHD. Hosted by ADHD Life Coach Janine VanStee, each episode dives into authentic chats with experts, educators, coaches, and everyday people living with ADHD. We explore challenges, breakthroughs, and the messy, beautiful realities of neurodivergent life — from school and work struggles to creativity, relationships, mental health, and everything in between. Whether you’re diagnosed, self-diagnosed, or just curious, ADHD Eavesdrop is here to bring you connection, insights, laughter, and lots of “me too!” moments.
Why do so many creative people seem to be neurodivergent? In this episode of ADHD Eavesdrop, Janine VanStee sits down with comedian, writer, actor, and creative Paco Romain for a deeply honest conversation about ADHD, creativity, emotional dysregulation, rejection sensitive dysphoria (RSD), therapy, masking, pattern recognition, and the emotional intensity that often comes with neurodivergence.
Paco shares stories from his life in comedy, acting, music, and performance while reflecting on the traits that made him begin questioning whether he may be neurodivergent. Together, Janine and Paco explore the connection between ADHD and creativity, the emotional impact of rejection sensitivity, the role of trauma, and why so many artists and creatives feel “different.”
This episode is funny, vulnerable, insightful, and incredibly relatable for creatives, deep thinkers, ADHD adults, and anyone navigating emotional intensity or late diagnosis.
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Paco Romane — comedian, writer, actor, podcaster, and “The Voice of Pandora” — joins me for this episode of ADHD Eavesdrop!
Paco has been featured on Comedy Central, Drunk History, SF Sketchfest, Outside Lands, The Todd Glass Show, NPR, NBC, Funny or Die, Cracked, KQED, The New York Times, Huffington Post, YouTube, and more.
He is also the host of: Sup Doc — The Premier Podcast About Documentaries
Paco was voted Best Comedian in San Francisco twice (2005 and 2012) and has been described as: “a natural entertainer” — Santa Cruz Review “an original” — Digital Journal and someone whose performances keep “audiences riveted and coming back for more” — NBC
Learn more about Paco here: Website: www.pacoromane.com Twitter/X: @pacoromane
Topics include:
- ADHD and creativity
- Neurodivergence in comedians and artists
- Rejection Sensitive Dysphoria (RSD)
- Emotional dysregulation
- Therapy and self-awareness
- Hyperfocus and pattern recognition
- Trauma vs ADHD
- Relationships and masking
- Creativity and purpose
- The emotional side of performing
Chapters
00:00 Welcome & Meeting Paco Romain
04:41 Therapy, ADHD & Self-Discovery 0
8:37 Pattern Recognition & Creative Thinking
12:14 Puzzles, Music & Neurodivergent Brains
16:08 Rejection Sensitive Dysphoria (RSD)
19:29 Emotional Overload & Public Reactions
27:18 Trauma vs ADHD Explained
33:59 Creativity, Passion & Neurodivergence 40:49 Comedy, Success & Searching for Purpose
49:09 Final Thoughts & Creative Identity

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