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Podcast Description
Enter the forbidden realms of human desire with Madeline and Eamon, your curious, kinky tour guides. Because deep down, you know you like it.
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The podcast covers a range of themes including Internal Family Systems (IFS) as it relates to BDSM, the philosophy and psychology of kink, and the role of trust and consent in erotic relationships. Episodes feature discussions on topics such as the liberation found in role play, the impact of cultural phenomena like Fifty Shades of Grey, and the connection between kink and personal growth.

Enter the forbidden realms of human desire with Madeline and Eamon, your curious, kinky tour guides. Because deep down, you know you like it.
Can you train dominance or is it who you are? Today Eamon and Madeline sit down with Orpheus Black, Eamon’s teacher and one of the most respected voices in conscious BDSM, to explore dominance, archetypes, power.
This conversation dives into energetic dominance, BDSM as an embodied art form, and how archetypes like Daddy, King, and Magician can shape, (or distort) erotic power dynamics. Orpheus shares his journey from Baptist rebel to Buddhist kink educator, explains why most men get stuck in “daddy” mode, and outlines the difference between topping, dominance, and true mastery. They explore responsibility, mentorship, and how our deepest wounds often fuel our fantasies.
Orpheus Black is a Los Angeles-based teacher, certified “Behavioral Health Support Specialist,” and thought leader at the intersection of kink, polyamory, and spirituality. Known for his sexcraft demonstrations, martial arts-informed techniques, and mythopoetic approach to masculinity, Orpheus helps people reclaim power, desire, and shadow integration through conscious BDSM.
Timestamps
- (04:00) The Origin of the Name Orpheus Black and Leading with Shadow
- (08:00) Breathplay, Angel Lust, and Erotic Energy Loops
- (12:00) Flogging as Energetic Transmission and the Art of Impact Play
- (19:00) The Four Erotic Archetypes: Father, Teacher, Director, King
- (24:00) Mentorship, Liminal Space, and the Path to Masculine Power
- (28:00) Why Dominants Often Give What They Most Desire to Receive
- (33:00) Power, Desire, and Claiming Leadership in Relationships
- (42:00) Can You Train Dominance, or Is It Who You Are?
- (47:00) Switching Dynamics, Tops vs. Dominants, and Responsibility
- (52:00) Mentorship Loss, Betrayal, and the Cost of Power
- (56:00) Daddy Doms, Abandonment, and Playing with Archetypes
- (01:02:00) Littles, Brats, and Healing Through Archetypal Roles
- (01:06:00) Casual Play vs. Deep Archetypal Commitment
- (01:09:00) Erotic Fantasy, Devotion, and Lowering the Bar to Succeed
- (01:12:00) Mistress Energy, Feminine Power, and Closing Reflections
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