How do you show up well at a play party? In this episode, kink educator and erotic facilitator Yossef Sagi joins Eamon and Madeline to break down everything from first-time etiquette to advanced group dynamics, all through the lens of conscious kink.

They begin with the Erotic Blueprints, then move into polarity-building, the art of conscious dominance, and how to harmonize desire in couples where one partner is kinky and the other isn't. Yossef shares how he coaches new doms, the psychological value of kink containers, and the difference between boundaries and agreements. They dive into tips for play party beginners and advanced etiquette for group play, including the difference between MFM and MMF, unicorn best practices, and how to co-create scenes rooted in attunement and trust. Yossef offers a masterclass in ethical eroticism, and one that just might change how you relate, in and out of the bedroom.

Yossef Sagi is a professional kink educator, coach, and the founder of Mystery Temple, a sober, ritual-infused personal development workshop disguised as a play party. He works with individuals and couples to build erotic fluency, create conscious power dynamics, and embody more expansive intimacy through kink-informed frameworks and practical tools.

Timestamps

• (02:40) – The Erotic Blueprints
• (06:43) – Challenges of mismatched desires in couples
• (13:52) – Conscious kink as a tool for revealing unconscious power dynamics
• (20:28) – How coaches act as “meta-doms” to train couples in real-time
• (25:09) – Polarity in long-term relationships and evolving power roles
• (31:47) – Containment vs. penetration: the two poles of good Dom work
• (35:20) – Play parties as advanced mode: introduction to Mystery Temple
• (43:57) – How to prep for a play party as a couple: agreements, boundaries, aftercare
• (52:01) – Etiquette for single guests and playing with couples
• (58:48) – MFM vs MMF and unicorn dynamics: how to honor group play configurations

Links

• Yossef Sagi (@yossefsagi)