Spoil Your Baby
Spoil Your Baby
Podcast Description
As a mom, neuroscientist, and a long time expert to parents, almost every expert has it wrong when they say 'don't spoil your baby.' Up until the age of 3, your only job is to spoil your baby with affection, attention, and protection. I promise you it's the best chance for the long term mental health and success of your child. On my podcast, I will interview the leading experts to explain why you need to SPOIL YOUR BABY as well as those that may disagree for a spirited debate. I will also give you the most up to date science-backed tools and tips that will help you to raise your baby for lifelong health and success.
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The show focuses on parenting strategies, neurodevelopment, and emotional well-being, with episodes discussing the importance of affection in early childhood and addressing societal criticisms of responsive parenting, ranging from debates on spoiling versus deprivation to exploring the latest research on child mental health.
As a mom, neuroscientist, and a long time expert to parents, almost every expert has it wrong when they say ‘don’t spoil your baby.’ Up until the age of 3, your only job is to spoil your baby with affection, attention, and protection. I promise you it’s the best chance for the long term mental health and success of your child. On my podcast, I will interview the leading experts to explain why you need to SPOIL YOUR BABY as well as those that may disagree for a spirited debate. I will also give you the most up to date science-backed tools and tips that will help you to raise your baby for lifelong health and success.
How can treating breastfeeding as a relationship rather than a mechanical task transform your feeding journey?
Kelly Kendall began her career as a hospital postpartum nurse and lactation consultant before moving into private practice. Throughout her years in the hospital, she watched countless parents feel completely overwhelmed after birth. Many prepared thoroughly for labor, yet found themselves caught off guard by the realities of breastfeeding in a world that lacks social modeling.
She saw firsthand how modern isolation and digital age pressure leave families feeling defeated when feeding does not go smoothly. Kelly transformed her approach by viewing breastfeeding not as a mechanical chore, but as a relational practice centered on love and connection. She realized that feeding is about holding the relationship between parent and baby, no matter what path it takes. Today, through her practice and her online program, Boob School, Kelly teaches parents to trust their bodies and normalize the ups and downs. She empowers families with practical tools like prenatal hand expression, while removing the shame around using nipple shields or pumping. We believe her compassionate perspective offers a comforting reminder that we can love our babies with our bodies in so many meaningful ways.
Key Takeaways
- Breastfeeding is a relational practice centered on emotional connection and love between parent and baby rather than just a mechanical delivery of milk.
- Learning hand expression during the final weeks of pregnancy builds muscle memory and provides valuable colostrum to support your baby after birth.
- Tools like nipple shields and pumps are helpful instruments that can bridge temporary challenges without ending your overall feeding journey.
- Taking a short break for skin-to-skin contact helps lower stress and allows both parent and baby to reset their nervous systems.
- We need to rebuild community support and remember that nurturing our children with our bodies extends far beyond the act of breastfeeding.
Becoming The Nurtured Mother
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Resources
- Kelly Kendall’s Website: https://www.thebalancedboob.com
- Kelly Kendall’s Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thebalancedboob
Guests Bio:
Kelly Kendall is a registered nurse, International Board Certified Lactation Consultant (IBCLC), and the creator of Boob School. With experience in hospital postpartum care and private practice, she helps families navigate breastfeeding through a compassionate, relational lens.
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