Spoil Your Baby
Spoil Your Baby
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As a mom, neuroscientist, and a long time expert to parents, almost every expert has it wrong when they say 'don't spoil your baby.' Up until the age of 3, your only job is to spoil your baby with affection, attention, and protection. I promise you it's the best chance for the long term mental health and success of your child. On my podcast, I will interview the leading experts to explain why you need to SPOIL YOUR BABY as well as those that may disagree for a spirited debate. I will also give you the most up to date science-backed tools and tips that will help you to raise your baby for lifelong health and success.
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The show focuses on parenting strategies, neurodevelopment, and emotional well-being, with episodes discussing the importance of affection in early childhood and addressing societal criticisms of responsive parenting, ranging from debates on spoiling versus deprivation to exploring the latest research on child mental health.
As a mom, neuroscientist, and a long time expert to parents, almost every expert has it wrong when they say ‘don’t spoil your baby.’ Up until the age of 3, your only job is to spoil your baby with affection, attention, and protection. I promise you it’s the best chance for the long term mental health and success of your child. On my podcast, I will interview the leading experts to explain why you need to SPOIL YOUR BABY as well as those that may disagree for a spirited debate. I will also give you the most up to date science-backed tools and tips that will help you to raise your baby for lifelong health and success.
Why is healing the complex relationships between adult siblings a universally overlooked area in mental health?
Jessica Marriot and Dr. Bluma Sapir, who are sisters, were estranged and hated each other for their entire lives until the pandemic prompted a change. Their relationship healing began slowly on Zoom. This unusual process led to a realization: adult sibling healing is a universally overlooked population in the mental health field, with everything else seeming to exist except for it. This observation reinforced their decision to document their journey and write their book, I’m Right, You’re Stupid: Growing up your sibling relationship. Dr. Bluma Sapir, a clinical psychologist, provided valuable background, enabling them to dive deep into existing research, reinforcing their path to help others.
They discovered that their deep pain stemmed from origin stories where family legacy burdens, such as the generational pattern of one sibling being the “black sheep” and the other the “favorite,” played a defining role. Both sisters came to understand that they had played dual roles, acting as both the victim and the abuser for each other. The healing process involved using neuroscientific tools, like deep breathing and grounding exercises derived in part from Polyvagal Theory, to co-regulate themselves. Through this hard work, they stress the importance of teaching repair and perspective-taking, emphasizing that true healing focuses on authenticity (what was felt) rather than accuracy (what was precisely remembered). Ultimately, this repair offered a “wider lens” on their purpose, provided clarity in other relationships, and helped rewire their nervous systems toward calm and security.
Key Takeaways
● Adult sibling healing is recognized as a universally overlooked population in the mental health field.
● The relationship with a sibling is often the first relationship where we learn how to get along or not get along with others.
● The roots of sibling conflict often stem from family legacy burdens, where generational roles like “black sheep” or “favorite” are passed down.
● When managing sibling conflict, parents should serve as regulators and co-regulators, avoiding the urge to choose sides or let children “figure it out”.
● Healing requires focusing on authenticity—hearing what the other person experienced—rather than arguing over the factual accuracy of past events.
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Resources
● Book I’m Right, You’re Stupid: Growing up your sibling relationship.
● Websites Your Sib Hub: https://yoursibhub.com (for more information and their fun quiz).
Guest Bios: Jessica Marriot is the founder of Forward Thinkers and innovative entrepreneur who partners with global brands to disrupt industries and drive revenue growth. Dr. Bluma Sapir is a distinguished clinical psychologist with over 20 years experience providing transformative psychotherapy to individuals and pairs.
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